Emily Nagoski’s book “Come Are You Are” is basically the new bible for any woman trying to reclaim her sex drive.
Filled with pages upon pages of useful information, reassurance, and debunking the many myths that exist around female sexuality- this is a MUST BUY!
My favourite parts of this book are where Emily goes into detail about actually HOW women’s sex drives work- and it’s not the story we’ve always been told. She explains how we can go about reclaiming our desire using the model of sexual brakes and accelerators. She also dives into factors that close down desire- such as stress- explaining in a simplistic yet powerful way about how sensitive our libidos can be, and crucially- what we can do about it.