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Understanding how your sex drive works

Vulva-voom! Increase your desire by understanding your sexual accelerators and brakes…

Reading Time: 3 minutes Emily Nagoski (a fantastic scientist and feminist) came up with a framework for how sexual desire works in her book “Come As You Are: the surprising science that will transform your sex life” (*affiliate link*). In it, she talks about the “Dual Control Model” Instead of our sex drives being in …

Sexual self-empowerment Understanding how your sex drive works

What does it mean to be “aroused”, and the link between arousal and desire

Reading Time: 4 minutes So, this blog post is on arousal. You might know by now that for some women desire for sex may come *after* arousal (if you didn’t know this, read here). Therefore, knowing what arousal is, and the physical sensations and changes that happen to our bodies, is crucial for understanding more about …