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How to put in sexual boundaries when you don’t know what yours are and it feels terrifying to ask for what you want

Reading Time: 4 minutes A MAJOR part of my journey to find my sex drive was dealing with resentment. There’s a post all about it here, but safe to say my partner used to piss me off all the time and I’d simmer away in the background spending time coming up with mad plots …

3. EMPOWER Relationships and desire Sex and desire

What is the “Coolidge Effect” and why it might be putting the deep freeze on your hot sex plans.

Reading Time: 3 minutes There is a very stubborn misconception that exists around sex in long term relationships. That good sex will “just happen”. And that if you need to work at it, your relationship or you have somehow failed. However, if you’re finding yourself feeling like the sex has got a little “meh”, …

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A fear of intimacy: are we more afraid of being sexually wild the closer we get to a partner?

Reading Time: 2 minutes Do you know Layla Martin? If you don’t already, you should. She’s an amazing American sex therapist that writes and vlogs about sexual empowerment. And her latest video, “7 Ways to re-ignite passion in a low sex relationship” is a great resource for those of us struggling with our desire. …