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From our research we believe there are six universal factors that shape our levels of desire…
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How the sex you are (or were) having is closing down desire
Reading Time: 9 minutes “Maybe she’s not got a low sex drive at all- its just no desire for the sex she is (or was) having” -Dr Lori Brotto It sounds obvious saying it out loud, but one of THE most common reasons for women losing their sex drive is that the sex they are (or were) having …
How issues in your relationship are impacting on desire
Reading Time: 4 minutes For many women, their desire doesn’t exist within a vacuum and how they feel about their partner governs how much they might like to have sex with them. However we often tend to look inwards if our desire fades. We blame ourselves and see it as a dysfunction that we’re not interested …
How a disconnect from your sexual self impacts on desire
Reading Time: 5 minutes There are many things that can close down a woman’s sex drive, but one of the MOST common factors (but not often spoken about) is because there is a barrier to her accessing and expressing her sexual self. This might feel like not only low (or no) desire for sex with a …
How your mood and mindset impact on desire
Reading Time: 3 minutes Many people say that your sex drive is like a barometer for your general well-being. So a fall in desire could be perceived as a message from yourself indicating that something isn’t quite right. Very often, that’s around our mental and emotional well-being. It’s really easy to underestimate the role our …
Physical health and desire
Reading Time: 3 minutes Your physical health is a major factor in your libido. This can include more everyday factors such as your menstrual cycle or hygiene, or other issues such as health conditions, medication side effects or the result of a recent life change. However, this can be one of the more difficult categories …
Time and desire
Reading Time: 3 minutes Sex and time is one of the most interesting categories for us on here. Note that it also intersects with so many of the other factors that shape desire! Often tackling time and priorities around sex last is the best way forwards because it is so tied up with other …
#7 things you *need* to know about sexual desire
Reading Time: 3 minutes This is the essential but explosive guide to desire we wish we’d had when we first started out…
The BEST EVER guide on how to stay present during sex
Reading Time: 6 minutes Is that a crack in the ceiling? Damn, I forgot milk. What the hell did Karen from HR mean when she said I can’t pull off a jumpsuit?! Loud thoughts that distract us whilst having sex are the worst. In a study of 40 years of research on women with …
How to find out what turns you on, when you have no clue where to start…
Reading Time: 2 minutes Do you *really* know what turns you on? If you do know, you’re one step ahead of me. I felt totally vanilla, totally idiotic, totally numb on this part. Because, if you’d have asked me to describe my fantasy or what turns me on to you a few months ago, …
How to practise sexual self care
Reading Time: 6 minutes As it’s #selfcare week, here is a cordial reminder of the importance of sexual self care. No you dirty bugger- it’s not just about wanking (although, that is kinda part of it). Sexual self care is about all increasing your wellness. And specifically your sexual wellness. They say…. It makes …