3. EMPOWER Feminism Mood, mindset and desire Sex and desire Sexual self-empowerment

No more”star-fishing” in bed- start doing this instead

Reading Time: 3 minutes Do you know what a starfish is? No, I don’t mean this inoffensive sea creature: I mean the term “starfish” to refer to a woman in bed. The Urban Dictionary definition states that a Starfish is: A female sexual partner who remains ‘unmoved’ during lovemaking, physically non-responsive (like a ….). OR, even …

Sexual self-empowerment Understanding how your sex drive works

What does it mean to be “aroused”, and the link between arousal and desire

Reading Time: 4 minutes So, this blog post is on arousal. You might know by now that for some women desire for sex may come *after* arousal (if you didn’t know this, read here). Therefore, knowing what arousal is, and the physical sensations and changes that happen to our bodies, is crucial for understanding more about …

Mood, mindset and desire Sex and desire Sexual self-empowerment

Here’s why you can’t allow yourself to be vunerable in bed

Reading Time: 3 minutes “In sex, you need to let yourself go… to the point of foolishness”- Sexology (film) Sex is about allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Surrendering, and releasing control. Being pleasured and finding pleasure. It’s about having tousled hair, wild eyes and an open heart. And yet, losing ourselves within sex can …