Welcome to Desired State.

We’re a feminist, womxn-centred platform focused on education and activism around the very misunderstood topic of female sexual desire.

If you’ve lost interest in having sex with a long term partner, and want to breathe new life into your bedroom by understanding why your desire has faded and what you can do to revive it-we’ve got you covered.  

Fancy throwing off the shackles of lacklustre sex, igniting your sexuality and setting this sh*t on fire?  

♡ We can’t wait to meet you 

Who We Are...

Our philosophy on desire sets us apart.

That’s because we believe there’s a reason behind why nearly HALF of all women report feeling a lack of interest in sex.  

And- spoiler alert- it’s because the problem isn’t with YOU! 

Want to know why it makes total sense that *so* many women experience fading desire in a Long Term Relationship, and what YOU can do about it?

What we do...

Ready to jump in and learn more about desire? 

Desired State offers informative blog posts, workshops, courses and individual coaching around female sexuality designed to educate, engage and empower women to forge a healthy and satisfying relationship with their desire.

Contact us to find out more, or check out our resources below…